August Blog Challenge: Day 9

*A picture somewhere that has the biggest impact on you.*

I know you all are probably tired of hearing and seeing wedding pictures by now, but hell, I haven't even been married a year yet, so I feel that I can keep showering yall with them post after post.  Becoming a wife and a step mom has had the biggest impact on me, since landing a job in the sales world and graduating with my masters.  I think the fact that J and I have weathered a few storms together (losing 2 jobs in 8 months for me and his quitting drinking and smoking) has affected me. 

I entered my 30s with a bang and as I write today, I am still the same fun time Paige I once was....she is just debt free and more responsible.  I can't say whether or not I would have come this far without both J and Peyton.  I do not sweat the small stuff. Wait, let me rephrase that...I do not freak out all the time as I would before when things aren't going the way I want them to.  J and I balance each other out.  He is soooo easy going and I am sooo not.  Hello, I am the person that has to plan to be spontaneous.  I don't  do well with change.  However, J has made me realize, it won't kill me to be flexible and relequish some control over situations that I couldn't control if I wanted to.  Peyton makes me excited to have a child full time.  (not at this time)  He is just so easy to love and I love that he likes me.  I am just a work in progress but I am so happy to have these 2 to experience life with.